Comments on: Getting Over Unrequited Love http://hypnodepot.com Hypnosis Product Review Sat, 22 Oct 2011 11:23:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-15177 Hypnotist Sat, 22 Oct 2011 11:23:47 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-15177 @Broken Heart: It's definitely one of the most difficult situations to cope with when the person you're feel that way for is part of your daily life. But the key to it all is again your inner world, more than the outer world - your emotions, more than your circumstances. Unfortunately, our own emotions are often some of the most difficult things to change, especially when it comes to love. Nobody can just "switch off love". But it's possible to transform this emotional energy into something else over time, and with work and patience - and hypnosis can help to speed the whole process up a little bit. But there isn't really a "magic bullet shortcut" for unrequited love, it's a process you must work on permanently, just like a farmer has to tend his fields year in and year out. But you really can take the pain away from it. @Broken Heart: It’s definitely one of the most difficult situations to cope with when the person you’re feel that way for is part of your daily life.
But the key to it all is again your inner world, more than the outer world – your emotions, more than your circumstances.
Unfortunately, our own emotions are often some of the most difficult things to change, especially when it comes to love. Nobody can just “switch off love”. But it’s possible to transform this emotional energy into something else over time, and with work and patience – and hypnosis can help to speed the whole process up a little bit.
But there isn’t really a “magic bullet shortcut” for unrequited love, it’s a process you must work on permanently, just like a farmer has to tend his fields year in and year out. But you really can take the pain away from it.

]]> By: Broken Hearted http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-15176 Broken Hearted Sat, 22 Oct 2011 10:22:24 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-15176 An interesting article but what if that person is a colleague and you have to interact daily.I think this unrequited love though its expressed is the most agonizing An interesting article but what if that person is a colleague and you have to interact daily.I think this unrequited love though its expressed is the most agonizing

]]> By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13947 Hypnotist Tue, 13 Sep 2011 05:21:46 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13947 Hi Jessica, thanks for sharing what you're going through - I'm sure it will help other people too. It's true - reading about other people's similar experiences, and expressing your own can help to soothe the pain a bit for a while. Wishing you all the best, Bob Hi Jessica,
thanks for sharing what you’re going through – I’m sure it will help other people too. It’s true – reading about other people’s similar experiences, and expressing your own can help to soothe the pain a bit for a while.
Wishing you all the best,
Bob

]]> By: Jessica http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13776 Jessica Mon, 05 Sep 2011 16:58:10 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13776 This has been extremely helpful for me to read, as I have loved someone for a very long time, who... in the end... just does not love me back and never will. It hurts really bad, but I believe that I am getting very close to the moving on(again) point, which I was able to do before for...get this, 5 YEARS! Then... there he was again... The last 3 months have been a complete blur for me. I let all the bills go, the laundry piled up, I failed a class- ruining my straight A history, and I have been too depressed to even call my real friends. Being lovesick is without a doubt- the worst thing I have ever experienced, and I have just been disgusted with myself that even after I went through the very first thing with him round 1 (7 years ago).... I would go back for more. A few times recently... I have felt like giving up all together, all because he does not love me. This, I realize... is not the answer. Thank you for hope.... Sometimes it helps just to know that we are not alone in this world, feeling something that no one has ever experienced. This has been extremely helpful for me to read, as I have loved someone for a very long time, who… in the end… just does not love me back and never will. It hurts really bad, but I believe that I am getting very close to the moving on(again) point, which I was able to do before for…get this, 5 YEARS! Then… there he was again…

The last 3 months have been a complete blur for me. I let all the bills go, the laundry piled up, I failed a class- ruining my straight A history, and I have been too depressed to even call my real friends. Being lovesick is without a doubt- the worst thing I have ever experienced, and I have just been disgusted with myself that even after I went through the very first thing with him round 1 (7 years ago)…. I would go back for more. A few times recently… I have felt like giving up all together, all because he does not love me. This, I realize… is not the answer.

Thank you for hope…. Sometimes it helps just to know that we are not alone in this world, feeling something that no one has ever experienced.

]]> By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13948 Hypnotist Wed, 24 Aug 2011 05:29:06 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13948 Hi Amy, thanks for sharing. Sometime painful doubts can be like a bitter medicine: tastes awful, but it helps. If you've loved him for 9 years, and been depressed for 4 years, it might be time to close this chapter, even when there's no happy ending. I agree with you, if you can get help, maybe from someone who is experienced guiding people through this phase in their life, it might be a good idea. Bob Hi Amy,
thanks for sharing. Sometime painful doubts can be like a bitter medicine: tastes awful, but it helps. If you’ve loved him for 9 years, and been depressed for 4 years, it might be time to close this chapter, even when there’s no happy ending. I agree with you, if you can get help, maybe from someone who is experienced guiding people through this phase in their life, it might be a good idea.
Bob

]]> By: Amy http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13435 Amy Tue, 23 Aug 2011 01:10:20 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13435 Wow, reading this passage has me me gobsmacked, Finally I know im not the only one like this.. In my head he lves me too .. I read his signs and have memorized everything every mentioed about him or what he's said, when I try explaining to people that I dnt want to memprize everything tjey dnt understand and think im just like a stalker And its how I feel, knowing his family, his lifestyle, when he dsnt want to know anything about me, wont eclven speak to me, and he knows I like him, so he's akward around me, this passage summ it up exactly, iv loved him for 9 years, and in the past 4 years iv been soo depressed, I tried to turn my life around, but for some stupis reason .. He's in my head.. An. I just wanna talk and let it out, I want to be able to get on with me lif witjout wondering if i'll walk paat him in a shop today or is he thinking about me too, someday he'll come out and say he really haa loved me all along and he"s been too shy to say. Reading this makes me feel soo doubtful of that anymore.. I need help.. :-( Wow, reading this passage has me me gobsmacked,
Finally I know im not the only one like this.. In my head he lves me too
.. I read his signs and have memorized everything every mentioed about him or what he’s said, when I try explaining to people that I dnt want to memprize everything tjey dnt understand and think im just like a stalker
And its how I feel, knowing his family, his lifestyle, when he dsnt want to know anything about me, wont eclven speak to me, and he knows I like him, so he’s akward around me, this passage summ it up exactly, iv loved him for 9 years, and in the past 4 years iv been soo depressed, I tried to turn my life around, but for some stupis reason .. He’s in my head.. An. I just wanna talk and let it out, I want to be able to get on with me lif witjout wondering if i’ll walk paat him in a shop today or is he thinking about me too, someday he’ll come out and say he really haa loved me all along and he”s been too shy to say. Reading this makes me feel soo doubtful of that anymore.. I need help.. :-(

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