Comments on: Getting Over Unrequited Love http://hypnodepot.com Hypnosis Product Review Sat, 05 May 2012 04:43:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-18501 Hypnotist Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:14:52 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-18501 Hi Brilynn, thanks so much for sharing your story - and also for sharing that my article helped you. It makes me really happy to know that it helped you to feel better, and maybe pass this a bit easier. I understand it's still so difficult. What you did was very noble of you, and with a heart like that you'll be able to find the kind of guy that deserves a girl like you. this guy will be a friend for life, and the fact that you honour the special relationship you have with him shows that you're a very mature person. I wish you all the best. You're still young and you have so many beautiful years and moments ahead of you, even if the thought of that guy makes your heart sink right now. Try to keep yourself open to receiving happiness with open arms when it comes your way, and I hope you'll have a really bright and joyful relationship with another guy. Hi Brilynn,
thanks so much for sharing your story – and also for sharing that my article helped you. It makes me really happy to know that it helped you to feel better, and maybe pass this a bit easier. I understand it’s still so difficult.
What you did was very noble of you, and with a heart like that you’ll be able to find the kind of guy that deserves a girl like you.
this guy will be a friend for life, and the fact that you honour the special relationship you have with him shows that you’re a very mature person. I wish you all the best. You’re still young and you have so many beautiful years and moments ahead of you, even if the thought of that guy makes your heart sink right now. Try to keep yourself open to receiving happiness with open arms when it comes your way, and I hope you’ll have a really bright and joyful relationship with another guy.

]]> By: Brilynn http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-18373 Brilynn Wed, 01 Feb 2012 08:13:18 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-18373 It took me a very long time before I even came to terms with my true feelings. I've known the guy I'm in love with since we were 3 years old. I am 19 now. We had crushes on each other when we were little according to our moms. My family ended up moving away, so we were not close for several years. Later, we moved back near where we had lived and he and I ended up in school together again. We became friends again and were kind of close at different points through high school. I tried to convince myself I only liked him because it felt secure since I'd known him for so long. I now know that wasn't the case. I would try to ignore him, but found it impossible. Everything about him attracted me to him. Not just him physically, but his personality. Especially how much he loves his mother and how important as a friend he makes me feel. He and I both have been through some very hard times and have tried to help each other through. About a year ago, he went through a really hard time and lost many friends. I never felt like I could tell him how I feel about him because I didn't want him to feel awkward around me and feel like he'd lost another friend. I feel like I made a sacrifice, but that it was the right thing to do. It still hurts, but I know that one day, I'll be okay. I know he considers me to be a great friend. I'm beginning to believe that that is enough. Your article really helped me. It took me a very long time before I even came to terms with my true feelings. I’ve known the guy I’m in love with since we were 3 years old. I am 19 now. We had crushes on each other when we were little according to our moms. My family ended up moving away, so we were not close for several years. Later, we moved back near where we had lived and he and I ended up in school together again. We became friends again and were kind of close at different points through high school. I tried to convince myself I only liked him because it felt secure since I’d known him for so long. I now know that wasn’t the case. I would try to ignore him, but found it impossible. Everything about him attracted me to him. Not just him physically, but his personality. Especially how much he loves his mother and how important as a friend he makes me feel.
He and I both have been through some very hard times and have tried to help each other through. About a year ago, he went through a really hard time and lost many friends. I never felt like I could tell him how I feel about him because I didn’t want him to feel awkward around me and feel like he’d lost another friend. I feel like I made a sacrifice, but that it was the right thing to do. It still hurts, but I know that one day, I’ll be okay. I know he considers me to be a great friend. I’m beginning to believe that that is enough. Your article really helped me.

]]> By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-15177 Hypnotist Sat, 22 Oct 2011 11:23:47 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-15177 @Broken Heart: It's definitely one of the most difficult situations to cope with when the person you're feel that way for is part of your daily life. But the key to it all is again your inner world, more than the outer world - your emotions, more than your circumstances. Unfortunately, our own emotions are often some of the most difficult things to change, especially when it comes to love. Nobody can just "switch off love". But it's possible to transform this emotional energy into something else over time, and with work and patience - and hypnosis can help to speed the whole process up a little bit. But there isn't really a "magic bullet shortcut" for unrequited love, it's a process you must work on permanently, just like a farmer has to tend his fields year in and year out. But you really can take the pain away from it. @Broken Heart: It’s definitely one of the most difficult situations to cope with when the person you’re feel that way for is part of your daily life.
But the key to it all is again your inner world, more than the outer world – your emotions, more than your circumstances.
Unfortunately, our own emotions are often some of the most difficult things to change, especially when it comes to love. Nobody can just “switch off love”. But it’s possible to transform this emotional energy into something else over time, and with work and patience – and hypnosis can help to speed the whole process up a little bit.
But there isn’t really a “magic bullet shortcut” for unrequited love, it’s a process you must work on permanently, just like a farmer has to tend his fields year in and year out. But you really can take the pain away from it.

]]> By: Broken Hearted http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-15176 Broken Hearted Sat, 22 Oct 2011 10:22:24 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-15176 An interesting article but what if that person is a colleague and you have to interact daily.I think this unrequited love though its expressed is the most agonizing An interesting article but what if that person is a colleague and you have to interact daily.I think this unrequited love though its expressed is the most agonizing

]]> By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13947 Hypnotist Tue, 13 Sep 2011 05:21:46 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13947 Hi Jessica, thanks for sharing what you're going through - I'm sure it will help other people too. It's true - reading about other people's similar experiences, and expressing your own can help to soothe the pain a bit for a while. Wishing you all the best, Bob Hi Jessica,
thanks for sharing what you’re going through – I’m sure it will help other people too. It’s true – reading about other people’s similar experiences, and expressing your own can help to soothe the pain a bit for a while.
Wishing you all the best,
Bob

]]> By: Jessica http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13776 Jessica Mon, 05 Sep 2011 16:58:10 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13776 This has been extremely helpful for me to read, as I have loved someone for a very long time, who... in the end... just does not love me back and never will. It hurts really bad, but I believe that I am getting very close to the moving on(again) point, which I was able to do before for...get this, 5 YEARS! Then... there he was again... The last 3 months have been a complete blur for me. I let all the bills go, the laundry piled up, I failed a class- ruining my straight A history, and I have been too depressed to even call my real friends. Being lovesick is without a doubt- the worst thing I have ever experienced, and I have just been disgusted with myself that even after I went through the very first thing with him round 1 (7 years ago).... I would go back for more. A few times recently... I have felt like giving up all together, all because he does not love me. This, I realize... is not the answer. Thank you for hope.... Sometimes it helps just to know that we are not alone in this world, feeling something that no one has ever experienced. This has been extremely helpful for me to read, as I have loved someone for a very long time, who… in the end… just does not love me back and never will. It hurts really bad, but I believe that I am getting very close to the moving on(again) point, which I was able to do before for…get this, 5 YEARS! Then… there he was again…

The last 3 months have been a complete blur for me. I let all the bills go, the laundry piled up, I failed a class- ruining my straight A history, and I have been too depressed to even call my real friends. Being lovesick is without a doubt- the worst thing I have ever experienced, and I have just been disgusted with myself that even after I went through the very first thing with him round 1 (7 years ago)…. I would go back for more. A few times recently… I have felt like giving up all together, all because he does not love me. This, I realize… is not the answer.

Thank you for hope…. Sometimes it helps just to know that we are not alone in this world, feeling something that no one has ever experienced.

]]> By: Hypnotist http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13948 Hypnotist Wed, 24 Aug 2011 05:29:06 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13948 Hi Amy, thanks for sharing. Sometime painful doubts can be like a bitter medicine: tastes awful, but it helps. If you've loved him for 9 years, and been depressed for 4 years, it might be time to close this chapter, even when there's no happy ending. I agree with you, if you can get help, maybe from someone who is experienced guiding people through this phase in their life, it might be a good idea. Bob Hi Amy,
thanks for sharing. Sometime painful doubts can be like a bitter medicine: tastes awful, but it helps. If you’ve loved him for 9 years, and been depressed for 4 years, it might be time to close this chapter, even when there’s no happy ending. I agree with you, if you can get help, maybe from someone who is experienced guiding people through this phase in their life, it might be a good idea.
Bob

]]> By: Amy http://hypnodepot.com/getting-over-unrequited-love/comment-page-1#comment-13435 Amy Tue, 23 Aug 2011 01:10:20 +0000 http://hypnodepot.com/?page_id=185#comment-13435 Wow, reading this passage has me me gobsmacked, Finally I know im not the only one like this.. In my head he lves me too .. I read his signs and have memorized everything every mentioed about him or what he's said, when I try explaining to people that I dnt want to memprize everything tjey dnt understand and think im just like a stalker And its how I feel, knowing his family, his lifestyle, when he dsnt want to know anything about me, wont eclven speak to me, and he knows I like him, so he's akward around me, this passage summ it up exactly, iv loved him for 9 years, and in the past 4 years iv been soo depressed, I tried to turn my life around, but for some stupis reason .. He's in my head.. An. I just wanna talk and let it out, I want to be able to get on with me lif witjout wondering if i'll walk paat him in a shop today or is he thinking about me too, someday he'll come out and say he really haa loved me all along and he"s been too shy to say. Reading this makes me feel soo doubtful of that anymore.. I need help.. :-( Wow, reading this passage has me me gobsmacked,
Finally I know im not the only one like this.. In my head he lves me too
.. I read his signs and have memorized everything every mentioed about him or what he’s said, when I try explaining to people that I dnt want to memprize everything tjey dnt understand and think im just like a stalker
And its how I feel, knowing his family, his lifestyle, when he dsnt want to know anything about me, wont eclven speak to me, and he knows I like him, so he’s akward around me, this passage summ it up exactly, iv loved him for 9 years, and in the past 4 years iv been soo depressed, I tried to turn my life around, but for some stupis reason .. He’s in my head.. An. I just wanna talk and let it out, I want to be able to get on with me lif witjout wondering if i’ll walk paat him in a shop today or is he thinking about me too, someday he’ll come out and say he really haa loved me all along and he”s been too shy to say. Reading this makes me feel soo doubtful of that anymore.. I need help.. :-(

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