You never know how much you loved someone until you lost them. But when you’ve come to the end of the relationship and you know that there’s no future for the two of you, it’s too late already. And the only thing you can hope for is to somehow cope and get over it. Hypnosis for lost love can help you to do the thing that seems impossible: move on with your life, without that other person.
The thing is:
you’re standing in the midst of these ruins, and there are painful reminders of the past (which is now gone) everywhere you look. And that’s depressing.
And you’re supposed to build something new and beautiful out of it…
… even if all you feel is despair.
The Neuroscience of Lost Love
Researchers did brain scans with people who were lovesick, who just went through the end of a relationship. They utilized fMRI (functional magnet resonance imaging) to analyze their brain activity. And this is what they found:
being broken hearted = being addicted
The brain scans of the lovesick showed surprising similarities to those of addicts. They experienced strong withdrawal symptoms, cravings and depression.
These areas are also associated with physical pain, and that’s one of the reasons why it hurts so bad.
“Everyone keeps telling me that time heals all wounds, but no one can tell me what I’m supposed to do right now. Right now I can’t sleep. It’s right now that I can’t eat. Right now I still hear his voice and sense his presence even though I know he’s not here. Right now all I seem to do is cry. I know all about time and wounds healing, but even if I had all the time in the world, I still don’t know what to do with all this hurt right now.” ― Nina Guilbeau, Too Many Sisters
But is it really true that time heals all wounds?
At least the researchers found that the “lost love brain activity” gets diminished the more days have passed since the breakup.
However, I think it’s not time that heals all wounds – it’s what you do in your mind. After all, there are people who even after many years are just as hung up and desperate on their ex-partner as they were during the first month – and for some people it even gets worse.
We all have basic psychological coping mechanism at our disposal, but whether we engage them and to what extend varies from person to person. What’s more, we often do not consciously know what the best way of getting over a lost love is.
Basically, what you want to do is to disassociate yourself from certain positive images and memories in your mind that cause intense cravings and overcome the feeling of loss and sadness, while also letting go of your love and freeing up space in your heart for joy that’s not related to your ex-partner.
Study researcher Helen E. Fisher, PhD recommends that you avoid contact with that person, get a lot of exercise to increase dopamine levels and especially to not ruminate about your past with your ex, because that’s what pushes most people into depression.
Hypnosis for lost love can help you to achieve all of these objectives, because the hypnotic suggestions contained in these self hypnosis downloads are especially crafted to help your mind go through the process of overcoming lost love in a shorter period of time – so that you can get your life back sooner, and move on to a happier future again.