Stop Jealousy
You’ve already made a first big step to stop jealousy here: you acknowledged the fact that you have a problem with jealousy, and you are looking for a way to stop it. Most jealous people never get this far – they lay all the blame on their partner instead. It takes a lot of courage and honesty to take personal responsibility and decide to change it.
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Jealousy can turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy, and in serious cases it often does. Even if you have a partner who is committed to you, loves you and is completely honest with you – if you constantly bombard him with false accusations and get into fights about things that never happened, you’ll drive your partner away from you.
It’s clear that you honestly love your partner. Nobody wants to risk losing someone that is so special and precious. But if your fear of losing your partner is so much out of control that it makes you feeling jealous, then you need to learn how to control that fear of losing your partner so you can save your relationship from your own jealousy.
Jealousy shows that you don’t believe in the strength of your relationship – and you might want to ask yourself why. Is it maybe because the relationship is otherwise too good to be true? Is it because on some level, you think you’re not worth it to have such a harmonious relationship? Is it because some part of you wants the drama and excitement that comes with jealousy?
What basically happens when you’re jealous is that you constantly imagine your partner doing things with another person – or you imagine your partner wanting to do things with another person – that he or she should be doing with you.
Again, these kind of thoughts are outside of your conscious control – you can’t simply stop them. In a way, they are obsessive thoughts that happen automatically.
Hypnosis against jealousy can help you to stop these automatic thoughts and regain a healthy confidence. It helps you to recognize jealousy for what it is – basically, an “instigator” that wants to drive a wedge between you and your loved one.
It’s a form of paranoia – you might believe that somebody is trying to take your partner away from you. But that “somebody” might just be your own jealousy.
Remember why your partner is with you – because of all the things he likes and loves about you. Because you are attractive to him. But if you behave jealously, then this can really eliminate all the attraction he feels towards you. Because your jealousy can make him or her feel constantly under pressure – and nobody enjoys that feeling. Nobody likes to have to justify and explain and proof that they’re innocent.
Jealousy doesn’t protect you against your partner having an affair or leaving you for somebody else. Quiet the contrary is true. The best way to make sure that your partner is honest and faithful to you is to make him or her feel good around you. But you can’t do that if you’re feeling jealous.
